We are always delighted when we host couples who are visiting a swingers club for the first time. It’s a big compliment for us when we’re your first swingers club – we know exactly what inhibitions have to be overcome and how carefully you look ahead to where the premiere should take place. We’ve all stood in front of a swingers club door for the first time with heart palpitations. So we know exactly how you feel.
Many couples write to us because they have a lot of questions. Let’s see if we can answer the most common ones…
For starters, it is sufficient if the woman wears a little black dress (or other chic cocktail or evening dress) and the man wears classic black trousers and a white shirt. You don’t have to go out and buy any “swinger clothes”. It is important that you feel comfortable and not disguised.
No! You don’t have to. We have two types of parties where active participation is desired (Gang Bang Classic and PTG), but we wouldn’t recommend them for a first visit anyway. Just imagine that you go to a nice bar, eat and drink well, enjoy the sauna and the pool and just watch the hustle and bustle. It’s no problem if you watch the whole thing discreetly and then go home with what you’ve seen to process it all first. Everyone reacts differently to new impressions. Some couples get excited immediately and play along – others need time. Decide for yourself what you feel most comfortable with.
No we have not. And not consciously. You can lock your bedroom door at home or a hotel room. Yes, of course there are clubs that have rooms like this, but we don’t. We follow a different concept. We have a room in the play area that you can close with a chain and that has a semi-transparent curtain that you can pull up.
When something like this happens – and that would be a rare coincidence – you should always realize that the other person is there just as you are. This means that no one can “catch” you doing something with us that he or she is not doing themselves.
Of course there are more questions. Check our “Questions” page to see if your question is already there. If not, you are welcome to write to us. You can also check the community joyclub for further information.
We look forward to you!